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These reasons is why we shouldn’t be too hard on ourselves

You have to know what you want

Did you read that?   

It seems simple enough, right?  

But for most of my clients, they don’t “know” what they want, and then they beat themselves up for not accomplishing “enough” or what they thought they would or “should” do each day. ⁣⁣⁠ 

Do you know what you want?  ⁣⁣⁠

The truth, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧’𝐭 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐡 “𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡” 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐜𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐡.

I get clients hiring me to  

“𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐦𝐞𝐝”  

𝐨𝐫 “𝐛𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐟𝐮𝐥,”  

but before anyone can help you be 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 else, you need to know and define what you want. ⁣⁣⁠⁣⁣⁠

𝘏𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘪𝘴𝘤𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵. ⁣⁣⁠⁣⁣

How many hours do you want to work? ⁣⁣⁠ 

What tasks do you like doing in your business? ⁣⁣⁠

What do you want to do (in life and business) more of?  

What do you want to do less of? ⁣⁣⁠ 

How much money do you want to make in your business?⁣⁣⁠ 

Why do you want to make that much? ⁣⁣⁠ 

What do you want to change in your motherhood? ⁣⁣⁠

How do you want to feel in your business? ⁣⁣⁠ 

How do you currently feel about your motherhood?

How do you want to feel about your motherhood?⁣⁣⁠ 

What is a feeling you want to feel more of? Less of?

Answering these questions can take time, but the answers reveal what you want, which will 𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐮𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐋𝐎𝐍𝐆 𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐦 𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐦 and gain the success you desire!⁣⁣⁠

We are overwhelmed because we don’t know what we want and/or we don’t know how to get it!

𝐏𝐫𝐨 𝐭𝐢𝐩 – knowing what we want is sometimes hard, so start here.  

⁣⁣⁠⁣⁣⁠1. Write down what you know you DON’T want ⁣⁣⁠

2. Start honoring what you already know you want⁣⁣⁠

3. Spend time thinking about the many questions above