That’s a lie

Do you know what you want? ย 

Many of my clients say, 

“๐˜’๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ ๐˜ฌ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต.” โฃโ  โฃโ  

I tell them, “๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต’๐˜ด ๐˜ข ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ.” โฃโ 

We know what we want! We are just afraid of whatย it *might* take to get it. โฃโ 

We are afraid that we can’t accomplish it successfully. โฃโ  โฃ

We are sacred that we might fail.โฃโ  โฃโ  

We worry about what other people will think of us.  

We realize a desire; then, we tell ourselves stories such as โฃโ  โฃโ 

it’s selfish to want more of thatโฃโ  โฃโ  

it’s not necessary to have that (๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต’๐˜ด ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฆ)โฃโ  โฃโ  

it will cost too much moneyโฃโ  โฃโ  

it will take away from my motherhoodโฃโ  โฃโ  

I won’t be able to juggle all of itโฃโ  โฃโ  

I am not smart enough to _______โฃโ  โฃโ  

Instead of telling yourself all the reasons why you can’t do something in your business, consider telling yourself all the reasons why it could be possible!!! โฃโ  โฃโ  

If you want better results, more time, less overwhelm, or more money, ๐ข๐ญ’๐ฌ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐›๐ฅ๐ž!โฃโ  โฃโ  

Figure out what you want and why, and then ๐ญ๐ž๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ข๐ญ ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐›๐ž ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐›๐ฅ๐ž! โฃโ  โฃโ 

There’s not a rush to complete your dreams. โฃโ  โฃโ  

There’s not a rush to grow your business. โ  โฃโ  

Take all the time you need. โฃโ  โฃโ  

Please, just stop telling yourself the lies that are holding you back!

The Worst Thing That’s Ever Happened

Have you ever known a school teacher to quit mid-school year?

Six years ago, I was that teacher!

We are natural storytellers, and we often use that gift to our detriment.

I told myself the worst of stories about quitting.

I’m done for in the state of Utah.

I’m never going to get another job.

No one will ever trust me again.

To make it worse, I was supposed to begin working at the neighboring school district the next year, and by quitting, I just knew I ruined that opportunity.

The day after I quit, I got a call from the same district asking me to interview for a work from home teaching position.

Quitting mid-year freed me up for one of the most significant opportunities of my career!

During that job work from home position, I developed many of the skills and confidence I use now in my coaching.

Because that position had flexibility, it provided me the time to certify in life and business coaching.

Because of quitting, I am here, helping other women take chances, make changes, build confidence, and create a business and motherhood they love.

“The more we practice looking in the rearview mirror and finding gratitude for the hard times we’ve experienced, the more we start to change our programming.”

When we learn from the hard times, the intensity of our fears in the moment of difficulty will begin to diminish!

That “worst thing that’s ever happened to you,” what are you enjoying now because you went through that experience?

The next time you begin to tell yourself the stories of “this is the worst thing ever,” zoom out a minute and consider that you could be wrong.